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  1. Prisoner
    Orangepanda05 / Oct 14 2019 20.32

    Hi

    I’m 14 and have been masturbating since I was 9.

    I have a strong desire to have sex.

    Is there anything I can do??

    Thanks

    Kate

  2. Scientist
    CoconutChoc / Oct 15 2019 17.46

    Hi Kate. If you want a feel for what’s it like try some different methods, or try visualising fantasies. The legal age of consent is 16 so you have a couple more years to wait until then.

    Take care!

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    Orangepanda05 / Oct 14 2019 20.32

    Hi

    I’m 14 and have been masturbating since I was 9.

    I have a strong desire to have sex.

    Is there anything I can do??

    Thanks

    Kate

    Hannahiscooler / Oct 16 2019 3.02

    I am only 10 but what i think you should do is visualize and fantasize like CococunChoc said.

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    Last-hope / Oct 16 2019 21.07

    Although the age of consent is 16 it does not stop under 16s from having sex. If you are going to have sex and youre under 16 then make sure you know what youre getting yourself into. But just because you have a strong desire to have sex dont mean you should have it with anyone. You should have sex with someone you care about and love. When they say visualize and fantasize then be aware that porn isn't real sex so consider that if you take that advice.

  5. Prisoner
    CoconutChoc / Oct 15 2019 17.46

    Hi Kate. If you want a feel for what’s it like try some different methods, or try visualising fantasies. The legal age of consent is 16 so you have a couple more years to wait until then.

    Take care!

    Orangepanda05 / Oct 16 2019 21.37

    Thanks for the advice

  6. Prisoner
    Hannahiscooler / Oct 16 2019 3.02

    I am only 10 but what i think you should do is visualize and fantasize like CococunChoc said.

    Orangepanda05 / Oct 16 2019 21.37

    Thanks for the advice

  7. Prisoner
    Orangepanda05 / Oct 16 2019 21.39

    What else can I do other than masturbate and fantasise?

    Thanks

    Kate

  8. Supported
    CoconutChoc / Oct 15 2019 17.46

    Hi Kate. If you want a feel for what’s it like try some different methods, or try visualising fantasies. The legal age of consent is 16 so you have a couple more years to wait until then.

    Take care!

    -Connor / Oct 16 2019 23.17

    Hi Kate,

    As CoconutChoc said, the legal age for consent is 16 - there is a very good reason why this is set at 16. You should remember this law is here to protect you.

    If you feel like you're being pressured into having sex - especially before you're 16 - you should talk to someone you trust. This could be a parent, teacher or a ChildLine Counsellor.

    Best regards,

    Connor

  9. Prisoner
    Orangepanda05 / Oct 17 2019 21.26

    Thanks for all the replys

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