Confidentiality means not telling anyone else about what you’ve said. So whatever you say will be just between you and Childline. And you can feel safe talking to us, knowing that no one else will find out. But sometimes, if we’re worried about your safety, we may need to get you help.
We'd only need to say or do something if:
Keeping you safe
We're here for you to get support with any problem you have. You can even talk about things you wouldn't normally tell anyone. That’s why it’s really important that you know we won’t tell anyone else what you’ve said to us.
Breaking a young person’s confidentiality is not something we do unless we have to. We'll always think about this carefully so if there's anything you can do to help us know you're safe, please contact us as soon as possible.
You can tell us as much or as little as you want to. Sometimes a Childline counsellor will ask if you want to give a first name, but it’s up to you if you want to do this.
Just because we do know your name, it doesn’t mean that we'd tell someone else about what's happening to you, no matter how much we know about you. You can always make up a name if you don’t want to give us your real one. We'd ask you to use the same name if you do get in touch with us again so that we know it’s you.
If you want to use 1-2-1 counsellor chat, send an email or post on the message boards, you'll need to sign up for an account. When you go online, you'll be asked to choose a username and a nickname, and it’s up to you what you decide to call yourself.
Phone numbers and IP addresses
There may be times when we're very worried about your or someone else's safety and we need to tell someone about what's happening. If this is the case, we might use your phone number or IP address (a number used by your internet provider) to get help to you.
If we don’t have those, we work with the police and phone company to get your phone number or IP address. We'd always try and talk to you first, before we pass this information on.
If you're unsure about anything, just ask a Childline counsellor. They're here to help you.
We're a safe place for you to talk
Calls are not recorded and your number won't show up on any phone bills. Counsellors write some notes about what you tell them. They also keep notes for emails and 1-2-1 counsellor chat and save copies of what you’ve said in a chat or email. These notes stay safe at Childline. They keep notes to help them understand what you’re going through and support you if you contact us again. It can also make it easier for us to get help to you if you’re in danger.
There are lots of different Childline bases in the country, and you may speak to a counsellor in any one of these places. We make sure that other Childline bases can see your notes if they need to, so you don’t need to go through everything again. Childline supervisors may listen in to your phone call, or supervise your 1-2-1 counsellor chat to make sure that we can help you in the best way.
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Breaking confidentiality can be very difficult. There are lots of things we have to think about to work out whether we have to pass your details on to someone else or not. It may be that at the beginning of your contact with us you explain how you're feeling but as the call or chat goes on, it becomes clearer that you're likely to act on these feelings.
Counsellors have to look at your whole conversation, how unsafe you sound and how likely it is you will be in danger when you finish talking to them. That’s why a counsellor might tell you it will be confidential at the beginning but then as you tell them more that shows that you are in danger, they can’t keep that promise anymore.
After we've told someone
You might feel like it’s your fault and that you or other people might get into trouble. We understand that it can be really hard to talk about certain things and to share what you’re going through.
After we've broken confidentiality we'll contact the people involved to ask for feedback about what happened. They may tell us what happened afterwards as well as other information about you like your name.
We'll always try to let you know if we need to break confidentiality. We want to help you in the best way and support you with what you're going through.
Some things that might happen:
We asked you about our confidentiality promise. Some of you said that you weren’t really sure when your confidentiality would be broken. And some said it made you angry when we told someone what you said to a counsellor.
If we ever have to break confidentiality or tell someone about your situation to get help to you, we'll always listen to how you feel. We'll also continue to support you and help you find ways to cope. Remember that you can always contact us again, even after we've tried to get help to you.
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