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I have a crush on M at my school and I don't know what to do cause he don't feel the same way.
Hope you can HELP!
Hi there,
There can be lots of reasons why someone doesnt feel the same way as you. Sometimes theyre looking for something different. And sometimes that theyre just not looking for a relationship right now.
When someone doesnt feel the same way about you, thats just how they feel. Its not because youve done anything wrong. Remember that however much you might want to, you cant change how someone else feels.
Sometime when you have a crush it can feel like you cant think about anything else. It can be good to remember what you used to be interested in, before all of this started. Sometimes this can be spending time with friends, sometimes listening to music or watching TV. Its often helpful to not spend time with your crush for a while.
Distracting yourself can help give you time to move on from your crush and can remind you of the things you used to enjoy. Its always okay to want to talk to your friends about how youre feeling.
If you dont feel able to talk to friends, you can always post about how youre feeling on our message boards. This can help you let out how youre feeling and get support from people who have been through the same things.
No matter what, you can always talk to ChildLine about how youre feeling. ChildLine can help you to think about whats been happening, how youre feeling and what you think is best for the future.
Take care,
Sam
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