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Anti-bullying week is from 13th - 17th November and I know that bullying affects a lot of people.

Over the next few weeks I'll be answering letters on bullying and giving advice on how to cope with it.

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  • if yours is chosen, you'll see it under one of the topics below
  • if you need support now or want to talk privately, contact a counsellor for free on 0800 1111.

latest letters

House rules

I want to make a account but one of the rules say ''we check your images, message board posts and mood journal entrie...

Bullying

I have been verbally threatened and physically hit by the same pupil at school for 12 months now. The school have fai...

moving out at 16!

Hi, I'm 16 and I was planning on moving out and I wanted to know if your parents didn't want you to move out can they...

Bullying In My Perspective

I am constantly bullied at school by the same kids. I am teased about my looks and unfortunately I can't change them....

IM IN BIG TROUBLE

hi sam! i am in really big trouble at school. i wrote something really bad about a teacher on a piece of paper and so...

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Anti-Bullying Week is from 13th - 17th November and I know that bullying affects a lot of people. Over the next few weeks I'll be answering letters on bullying and giving advice on how to cope with it.

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Getting over a breakup

Hi sam, A couple of years ago I got into a relationship with who I believed to be the love of my life, my soulmate. W...

Can I go on the pill?

I'm a girl that's 15 years of age. Last year I lost my virginity to my boyfriend (at the time) and since we have brok...

Lied about my age

i'm 16 and i met a guy online and told him I was 18 and he is 19. At first i didn't think it was a big deal because i...

My addiction to pornography.

Hi Sam, About three quarters of a year ago, I was on Instagram and I was scrolling through my feed and found that one...

Having the implant

Hi, I am thinking about having the implant done,I wanted to ask would you tell my parents as I am 14?

it okay

dear sam, I have just found out my boyfriend is gay I don't know how to tell him that im okay with it and I will move...

Sex

Hi, I am a 14 year old girl who has had sex. I had sex a couple of weeks ago and I think I'm pregnan. My question is ...

Sexual abuse in relationships

I was pressured into doing things i didn't want to do with my now ex boyfriend. I tried telling him I didn't want to ...

internet friends

Hi Sam, I am writing to ask you if it is okay to have internet friend. I have over fifty Internet friends that I talk...

Turning 16 first

I'm a girl and for a few months now, I have been having sex with a boy in my year. We aren't actually boyfriend and g...

Relationships

Sam, there's a boy who I was seeing for 5 months but we aren't together anymore due to complications and that he isn'...

Boys

Hi SAM, my name is **** and I have a massive problem with some boys. My ex, lets call him Danny, and another boy, let...

sexual harassment

hi, im a 16 year old girl and recently one of my families friends has been making me feel uncomofortable. i went to t...

Boyfriends

Hi my name is liz and im confuseibecause over the summer i went to a summer club and meet a boy that i knew from like...

Is it emotional abuse?

I've been in an on and off relationship for ov r a year now. He's broken up with me then gotten back with me three ti...

Can i get my implant out at 16

Hi Sam, my names Shannon and im 15. I have recently began to have sex and im on the implant. But i want my implant ou...

My boyfriends in prison

Hey Sam, i was just wondering if you can help me out with some emotional stuff im going through. Me and my boyfriend ...

15 and pregnant

hi i am 15 years old 16 in october and i am pregnant i would really love to keep it and so would my boyfriend i am sc...

Holiday issue with my boyfriend

Dear Sam, ​ Help me. I am very sad. My mum kindly bought me and my boyfriend a holiday that cost her £500. At first m...